
JAMA – MANABI – ECUADOR – Young Valentina sits in the doorway while her Aunt Marie and Uncle Edgar show cracks in what I thought was their temporary home. Marie and Edgar, I discovered, live elsewhere.

“When we feel weak, we drop our heads on the shoulders of others. Don’t get mad when someone does that. Be honored. For that person trusted you enough to, even if subtly, ask you for help.”
― Lori Goodwin
Ecuador – There seems to be a running clock/calendar that keeps track of the days and months since the earthquake destroyed much of Ecuador’s central and northern coast. Each month when the calendar approaches ’16,’ I note the time and remember the 7.8 earthquake that hit just after 7 pm on April 16th. Does anyone ever get past that feeling of premonition – or wondering if it might hit again?

Jama Ecuador before the earthquake…. 11 months later – that landscape has changed. Vacant lots guard the memories of houses that once lined these streets.

Edgar and Marie salvaged boards, windows and doors from their collapsed 2-story home and now live in a temporary tent on the site.

At night they sell cold drinks at the site where they once hosted friends while enjoying weekend ceviches before and after the futbol games.

Salvaged lumber from their old home.

Like most, they know what they’d like to do but lack funds to buy supplies and pay workers.

“How hot is it in there?” I asked after we stepped back outside. I guessed 45 C, but Edgar thought it was closer to 50.

Stop by for a cold cervesa or agua; every little bit helps!
Edgar and Maria do not have an on-site kitchen, but their family usually joins her parents who have moved six or so blocks down the street. Throughout town, one sees progress, yet there are still a lot of people hoping for better days.

Housing communities replace the tent cities, yet how difficult it must be to be crammed into such petite spaces? Each family has a story; are they happy? Do they feel safe? Do I dare tip into their lives and inquire?
“After a traumatic experience, the human system of self-preservation seems to go onto permanent alert, as if the danger might return at any moment.”
― Judith Lewis Herman,
Across town I met a new friend. Wearing a hand-made blouse, Isabel invited me to see her make-shift home and hear her story of the night of the earthquake.

Isabel cooks on an open fire and sells little cubes of cakes. I brought her a new blouse, and she gave me about four cubes of cake!

Isabel lives in this house, which is beside her niece’s little home.

The area behind the houses serves as the kitchen,.

She cooks here.

Her niece’s kitchen has a refrigerator, but no appliances. Isabel cut the cake with a large spoon…

Isabel’s home.
“If you are here today… you are a survivor. But those of us who have made it thru hell and are still standing? We bare a different name: warriors.”
― Lori Goodwin

My friend Luchy cracks coconuts for the family!
11 months ago at this hour, the people were scrambling, trying to make sense of what had just happened. Their world had ripped apart. It was raining; a tsunami warning added more fear and uncertainty to their nightmare. People were injured, dead, lost, frightened, disoriented. There were no phone signals, no electricity. They are survivors, and they are all warriors.
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I went to a workshop once on small adobe dome homes. The houses are built of mud blocks with no foundation. The are then fired from within using s huge fire that solidifies the whole building. During an earthquake, they act like an upside down teacup on a rattling table. That is, they sort of bounce around. Is there any good adobe dirt there?
Wow, Emilie! That sounds like an amazing structure… I am not sure what type soil is needed for adobe… I think there’s a lot of limestone, yet people there make bricks……
It has to have a LOT of clay content. I would guess you have mostly sand.
it would certainly make a great experiment…. life in a teacup!
life can be such a challenge on so many levels everywhere…but there…for the last 11 months I would imagine that the challenges are so overwhelming…and yet their spirits still soar at the small things…
yes, i was just thinking/pondering that it might be comforting to take some prepped food to cook with isabel on her open fire… i think i would enjoy it much more than she — the cooking on the fire, yet she might enjoy seeing it through my eyes… thanks, gwen…
Truly frightening! It is remarkable, though, how calamity brings people closer together, isn’t it?
yes; i wish i could take you all for a quiet walk through that area and introduce you to the sweet and kind people… and witness their generosity. they have so little, yet they always share what they have…
My eyes sting with the prick of tears as these people still struggle after all of this time to rebuild their lives.. They are indeed true warriors.. Ones that quietly get on with trying to rebuild with what means they have..
I find it difficult within our world of the haves and have nots, how the structures are not in place within their governments to help such people as these..
It beggars belief.. Like Haiti and how they too still are struggling, yet Millions of Dollars and Pounds were poured into helping.
The same in Africa as the Millions still starves despite the millions of aid already which has been given..
One can not help but think that the structures within all of these tragedies are not getting through the needy, but some one is profiting from them..
I can only admire these families even more, as thy put us to shame who seemingly have everything and yet we constantly complain..
We have NOTHING to complain about..
Many thanks for sharing Lisa.. Your Love, your compassion and your heart is clearly there for all to see… xxxx ❤ xxx ❤
thank you. tonight at dinner with friends we discussed what has and has not been done… there re some good things happening, like the christian group that is providing the bamboo ‘pre-cut/built’ kit houses.. except one has to own the land, which is a problem for many… and then there are the free houses in those communities, but it sometimes seems more like a prison with no fencesto live sandwiched beside the others in a grid tht strethes in all directions. so many seem to be ‘invisible’ and have few options for having a voice – to know how to speak up or ask for help.. only by chance. but that happens all around the world.. i’m only witnessing a small part of how our world is out of balance….
thank you for caring via your oh so tender heart…
Yes its a terrible time for many.. But I do believe that by our hearts, we will change our world Lisa, its happening even though its ever so slowly and we as yet can not see its impact.. But systems are failing in the big business world.. As people want change.. And are seeing that they have been lied to and controlled and basically ripped off half the time by those filled with greed.
It is people such as you, at the roots of seeing and caring enough to help that are helping change energies in this world, And I so thank you for bravely stepping up to do all you do.. So I so thank you Lisa for YOUR Caring Heart.. ❤ ❤ ❤
i thank YOU as well… may the balance of people with strong intentions of goodness weigh more than the ones with negative ones…
I pray they will Lisa. ❤ xxx
I remember the story my Grandmother told about the morning of the Great San Francisco Earthquake of 1906. She was 50 miles from the epicenter but was thrown from her bed in the pre-dawn. 40 years later she was still re-living that experience (although much less intensely) especially as April 18th approached. Our cells remember. Thank you for continuing to keep this fresh in our minds with your stories and photos.
‘our cells remember’ — you are so right…
tonight i went to dinner with friends, as since the earthquake, i don’t leave without a flashlight in hand…
‘our cells remember’ – such a powerful reminder.. thank you!
This is very sobering Lisa, a reminder of what suffering really is and how we take for granted the necessities of life that come to easily. Yes they are warriors and I do remember when it hit and waiting to hear word from you. Thank you for sharing, the scars won’t heal anytime soon.
tonight i had dinner with friends and we were discussing the night of that quake… she had written later – 11 months go- and said, ‘lisa the entire country is looking for you…’ they thought that i might be on the coast too, and it is scary when the normal communication is down…..
You are a very special person to the country, it is through your lens and gentle spirit that the people have found hope and revival. Think of you often, take care my friend.
oh dear mary! if you were here with your loving heart, you would also be there with the people and providing a quiet ear/compassion – especially to those who seem so stoically alone. thank you…
Such wonderful warriors!
oh they are! thank you!
It’s impossible to comprehend the devastation that happened during the earthquake 11 months ago. And how it must feel to try to rebuild what was then destroyed. And I am taken by the spirit these friends of yours show in their way back to a more normal life, even when they don’t have much. Extraordinary.
Thank you Otto; knowing what they are going through certainly helps me /my attitude toward daily challenges. Mine are so tiny compared to theirs.
I often think the same.
Love the way Valentina’s picture is shot from her (ground) level. You capture the world of your friends — you must have a thousand of them — and bring it to us … um, almost too vividly. Goes right to the heart, and makes Ecuador real to me.
We can’t conceive of the distress these environmental disasters cause. I often wonder how strong I would be in these situations. I feel for them and for you too. I guess you find some inner strength from somewhere and the only thing to do is to try to bring your life back to some normality.
The scenes from Peru at the moment are just beyond belief. How do you lift yourself up? I guess at it’s basest level humanity survives when it has to. I hope the current situation doesn’t become the new status quo and that there is some serious help soon.
yes, peru is suffering.. i don’t see why more people have not died – when a wall ofwater comes roaring from higher areas — the videos are so scary. we’ve been getting a lot of rain, landslides in areas,etc. … here and in peru it’s blamed on a different not-often seen ‘nino’ that is caused by hot waters near the coastline….
We can protect ourselves from everything, but never against the force of nature and if one makes it through, that person is warrior. Beautiful post.
So hard to keep smiling, Lisa. The world moves on and forgets and they have to make the best of it.
So much must have changed that it is hard for people to go on smiling. True survivors and having to deal with what remains and make a life. Makes me sad seeing the conditions.
One thing is pretty certain…if/when it happens again, it will not be when everyone’s mind is on it. It will well up out of the great cosmos and stand everyone on their heads again. But I hope it doesn’t happen, at least not in any of these people’s lifetimes. 50 Celcius???? My dog, that’s gotta be volcano hot!
‘like the thief in the night’ which is how the one from last year was described… first a little ‘bump’ and eight minutes later they thought it was the end of the world… no chance to do anything – it was as sudden as a bucking bull coming out of the gate…
yes, it was so hot my entire body was screaming ‘warning warning!’